“Before working with Rod as our marriage coach, we were stuck in the same cycle of conflict. We now have the tools to see one another’s needs.  We can now resolve conflict in a healthy, and more efficient way. We are so grateful for the support we received and the opportunity to work with Rod!”

Taron & Meghan 
NFL -- Buffalo Bills

“Like every other area in our lives, having a coach and resources to lean on and find real truths has made a big difference.  It’s been reassuring to see other couples who are  also in the “shit”, working through stuff together.  It’s not all IG and best foot forward. We’re real people with real stuff in our backgrounds.  A lot of us don’t know how to deal with our emotions given our backgrounds. We need the things you’ve taught us.”

Case & Kimberly
NFL -- Houston Texans

_{“This has been transformational … especially to see other couples in our field learn to be vulnerable.  Thanks for opening the floor to help us open up, Rod.  Your knowledge has helped me to open up to be able to talk about difficult conversations.  The homework exercises helped us take our relationship to the next level.  We really appreciate the tools you’ve given us!”}

Tre' Davious & Ikea
NFL -- LA Rams

Learn From An Expert

With Rod Hairston, M.A. you get a relationships expert with more than 30 years working with high-profile couples & more than 33 years of marriage.  I've studied and researched  the needs of couples who've enjoyed great success and acclaim.  I've helped hundreds of couples just like you to break through years of frustration to deep and lasting connections. My 6-step Dream Marriage Method is a proven framework for success.  We're never "winging it".   And when there are needs beyond my expertise, I've established partnerships with experts in other fields such as trauma, finances, and medicine. I'm committed to your success.

Access When You Need It

You don't want to trust your marriage to just anyone.  And you don't always have weeks or months to wait for a therapist who has no idea what your high-profile life is really like.  You don't want to tell your story over again to multiple people.  With Private Concierge Coaching you simply have access when you need it.  We use technology no matter where we may be in the world and no matter what time zone.  I've coached my clients from places around the world like the Netherlands, Sierra Leone, Paris, and even Iceland.  When you're my client, you're a priority, not a number. One day, we might work together in one of those places.

Patience, Compassion, & Inspiration

Strengthening your marriage takes time.  As your marriage coach I will not rush you or the process.  That's unnecessary and creates unwanted pressure.  You get to be "where you are" without judgement, criticism, or shame.  You'll get someone who listens patiently and deeply,  so you feel fully heard. My private client list is limited so I can be dedicated to your growth, healing, and transformation.  That takes time and patience.  Sometimes I will say the hard thing to you when it's necessary, but you'll always come away from sessions feeling inspired and knowing you're supported.

Wisdom & Clinical Understanding

Wisdom from the Bible undergirds your work with me as your coach.  With Masters level training in Theology and Psychology, I've developed a unique way of combining age-old wisdom with clinical understanding! You don't want someone who doesn't help you deepen and strengthen your relationship with God.  Instead you'll learn to see God at work along the way as you overcome things like anxiety, anger, sexual issues, and even betrayal trauma.  You'll learn how to fully experience and understand each other emotionally while supporting each other spiritually! (No spiritual background required!)