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DREAM MARRIAGE

I help couples who've built extraordinary success
build extraordinary marriages, and families that thrive.

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Build The Marriage You’ve Always Wanted

2X Super Bowl Winning Chaplain, Author, & Marriage Expert, Rod Hairston, M.A. helps professional athletes and entrepreneurs build *Dream Marriages & Thriving Families

WORK WITH ROD HAIRSTON

I've been Coaching couples for over 30 years across
professional sports from top and well recognized teams like:

Takes less than 5 minutes.

See What’s Already Strong In Your Marriage, And What Needs Strengthening.

Completely private

Your answers stay between the two of you. No pressure, no exposure, no shame.

Quick and thoughtful

It takes only a few minutes, each question is designed to help you reflect honestly.

Your overall score

See a clear, honest picture of your relationship health as it stands right now.

A six-area breakdown

Understand where you are strong and where you may need attention, area by area.

Practical insight

This is guidance, not a diagnosis. You will see what is working and what needs care next.

Immediate results

Get your score and breakdown right away, with the option to unlock a deeper report later.

Meet Rod Hairston

I've spent most of my lifetime studying marriage and relationship dynamics and have worked for over 30 years coaching high-performing professional athletes and entrepreneurs and their partners,
Including my graduate school years, I've been gathering the most important biblical  principles,  psychological insights and coaching wisdom, that lead couples away from expensive divorces and back to passionate love for each other. 
The worst thing that happened to me turned out for my good.  It gave me purpose.   At the age of 9 months my dad abandoned our small family. 

My Mom raised me and my brother  as a single mom, I'm grateful to say that I've beaten the statistical odds related to adverse childhood experiences and have achieved a thriving marriage and family for over 34 years, 
I'm grateful to have earned two Super Bowl rings. And I'm proud to have built a highly effective coaching practice serving as a coach, mentor, and trusted advisor to some of the most respected and successful people in the world of sports and business.

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See what other marriages are saying about Love Again Coaching:

We all want to be happy and succeed
in our marriages and relationships.

 

Many of us dream of building fulfilling, successful relationships, but we often feel frustrated, stressed, anxious, and on the brink of walking away from someone we once loved, deeply. We want the connection and harmony that use to feel automatic. Achieving high-level career success and relationship success looks easy, but it can be exhausting and overwhelming.

 Today, most couples are:

  • Finding it hard to connect

  • Struggling with communication

  • Unable to resolve old and new conflicts

  • Feeling unknown and unaccepted by their partner

  • Losing trust and struggling to rebuild it

No wonder it’s easy to feel discouraged, questioning whether you've made the right choice in your partner.Couples feel like they have to choose between career success and relationship success. 
It creates  stress and tension that leads to shallow communication and feelings of neglect. Deep down, couples want a strong, trusted relationship, they just don’t know how to make it happen.

Meet Rod

 
Rod has spent his lifetime studying intimate relationship dynamics, working for over 30 years coaching couples in professional sports and business entrepreneurship.  Over many years he’s continued gathering the most important biblical  principles,  psychological insights and coaching wisdom, that leads couples to life-long success. 
 
Being raised in low-income housing by his single mom, he has beaten the odds to have achieved a thriving marriage and family for 34 years and going, earned two Super Bowl rings, and built a highly effective coaching practice serving as a coach, mentor, and trusted advisor to some of the most respected people in the worlds of sports and business.

ROD'S METHODOLOGY 

The 6-Part Formula for Couples’ Success

 

Rod’s expertise combines the application of psychology and biblical theology to create a powerful formula for couples’ success. With years of research and experience, he has developed a unique approach that helps couples uncover the deeper dynamics of their relationships and discover what makes them who they are.
 

His years of research and teachings center around helping couples uncover what has made them who they are, discover how they function in relationships, be honest about why they function as they do, and embrace what they need for their relationships to be healthy.

 

Stage 1 - Uncover Your Personal Why For Love +
The first step to building a dream relationship life that is vibrant and healthy is to go beneath the surface to understand our own “why”. Our why is the key to our motivations in love relationships and our rarely expressed (and little known) desire to heal some part of our lives. Our expectations in relationships, as well as our disappointments, can be better understood when we uncover our why. Here we get couples clear about lifelong patterns and often, life-long pains that show up in our relationships.
Stage 2 - Level Up Your Emotional Understanding +
We were created, in part, to be emotional beings. But our emotions are what get us in trouble in our relationships. Sometimes they lead us in ways that we do not know. And sometimes we hurt each other deeply because we don’t “see” emotions.

This is the most neglected part of our relationship journey because it is the most neglected part of our lives. To build rich connections, we help couples develop a deep respect for the place and role emotions play in our lives and in our relationships with each other. Couples who lean into this 2nd stage are poised for great success!
Stage 3 - Unstack Conflicts & Clarify Conflict Styles +
There is no relationship life without conflict. Yet many couples have never been taught how to engage in conflict in healthy ways. Most of us have never seen healthy conflicts in our upbringing. And sometimes what we did see we considered healthy. Often what we saw was the normalization of unhealthy conflict resolution.

Because of this, many couples have stacks of unresolved conflicts, which put extraordinary pressure on their relationships. Once couples begin to understand the science behind why we operate in conflicts the way we do, embrace the principles for functioning well in conflicts, and begin practicing the skills for engaging one another, they experience a new freedom with one another.
Stage 4 - Develop “Love Talk” & Communication Skills +
If 80% of communication is non-verbal, it’s important that couples learn to see the entire picture when they attempt to communicate. Words are only one aspect of our “love talk.” Our bodies say a great deal, and we must learn to read each other beneath the surface of our words in a way that helps us connect.

Couples who work with Love Again and who implement our Dream Marriage Method discover a powerful new framework that helps them improve their communication exponentially, beginning with the inner personal work that is foundational.
Stage 5 - Rebuild Broken Trust +
When conflicts are left unresolved, communication breaks down, and emotional needs suffer, broken trust is the result. In this stage, couples learn the keys to safely and consistently putting trust back into their dynamic. This is a delicate process that takes time. But our Dream Marriage Method provides couples a way to know for sure how to rebuild broken trust even if trust has been lost for years.

Our approach to rebuilding trust helps couples recover their love even if there have been repeated infidelities or other painful relationship injuries.
Stage 6 - Create A Healing Environment +
Great relationships are built in great environments. In this final stage, couples learn the power of helping each other heal from past relationship injuries within their relationships, as well as from family-of-origin pain and traumatic experiences.

Many of our clients—private and group—discover that this stage introduces them to a game-changing concept that we call “Healing Together.” It changes their focus to long-term success, not only for themselves but for their family, with powerful implications for generations to come.

Cover Him: A Coaching Manual for Wives
"Cover Him" is a coaching manual designed specifically for wives who want to understand and relate to the unique needs, thoughts, and emotions of the men who matter most to them—whether it's their husband, father, sons, or nephews. This guide provides practical insights and strategies to foster deeper understanding, communication, and connection within the most important relationships in a woman's life.

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Cover Her: A Call to Step Up and Be the Man Your Family Needs
"Cover Her" is a powerful call for men to step up and embrace their role as a loving husband, inspiring father and respected leader. This book offers practical guidance on becoming the husband your wife adores, the father your children look up to, and the man who inspires other men to rise to their potential. As you take on these responsibilities, you’ll hear the devil whisper, “Uh-oh. I’m in big trouble with this man around!”

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Emotional Tsunami is a guide for couples who are struggling to recover from infidelity in their relationship whether it happened yesterday or 30 years ago.  When the storm of betrayal hits you need to know where you are, what's happening to you, and what next steps to take.  

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