THE LOVE MASTERY INTENSIVE
Learn The Keys to Love & Intimacy In 3 Days
Control the cycles of negative emotions and hurtful behaviors. Breakthrough disappointments, heal old wounds, and start connecting again.
YOU WANT HARMONY, LAUGHTER, CONNECTION, SEXUAL PLEASURE, & A FEELING OF SAFETY IN YOUR MARRIAGE
But right now those things feel far away. You're both exhausted from the ongoing cycles of arguments, tensions, coldness, walking on egg shells, and miscommunication.
You want your marriage to work, but so much is unclear and unresolved. Disappointment now shows up as anger or even resentment. Both of you feel emotionally unsafe, unseen and unknown. But if you're reading this page, I can assure you it's not too late for ... if you're ready to do things you were never taught to do.
Many couples reach this point after years of having to simply "move past" conflicts, ignore pain, and suppress emotions ... usually without knowing it. Even after months or years of therapy, you can remain stuck because information is not the key to change. Application is. Implementing new practices has the power to transform your marriage!
You are not alone. Many couples have been where you are. You can have the marriage you once dreamed of having with each other. And you're in the right place.
In the Love Mastery Intensive you will:
- Get to the bottom of ongoing conflicts
- Build new emotional muscles
- Learn to apply your faith in God in real time
- Learn to calm your anger & each other's anxiety
- Begin helping each other heal old wounds
- Begin re-directing toxic and displaced energy
- Begin embracing your God-given identity (individually & together)
- Discover the power of seeing, serving, & soothing
Your personal and marriage transformation are closer than you think. God has plans for you and the Love Mastery Intensive is an experience to help you get on track with His plan. Are you willing to let go of what you thought you knew? Are you willing to let go of what's keeping you from succeeding?
Being unhappy in your marriage doesn't make you a bad person. You know deep down inside, things could be so much better. Don't settle for less.
Love & marriage are designed by God to work, using proven principles, precepts & practices. Love Mastery will help you discover them and deploy them in your relationship.
You Need The Love Mastery Intensive
Built On Rod’s Proprietary Dream Marriage Method
The truth is, when you master awareness of the unique, all-important need you and your spouse have, you will be 70% closer to living your dream for love, romance, and unbreakable connection.
Introducing The Love Mastery Intensive
The Love Mastery Intensive is a private, exclusive coaching experience for professionals in sports, entrepreneurship, corporate leadership, and entertainment. It's built for couples who are serious about life success and marriage success.
Here's how the intensive works:
- Schedule your exploratory call to see if you're a good fit for The Love Mastery Intensive
- If you're accepted, pay your 50% deposit to hold your space
- Get your date on the calendar (Dates are limited)
- Complete the Dream Marriage Scorecard Assessment and the Love Again Couples Intake
- Complete your enrollment with the final payment
- Schedule an intensive prep call for collaborative mapping of your challenges and goals as a couple
- Show up ready to work
- The 3 days include
- a clear agenda based on your most pressing challenges
- sessions of private coaching & guidance
- assignments between some sessions
- meals and breaks
- creative implementation of new skills
Each day you’ll be coached by Rod Hairston to have safe, engaging, breakthrough conversations. You’ll get to the root of problems (not skip over them), begin reconnecting, and start using new tools. In just days, you'll go from cold distancing to renewed warmth.
Student Praise for Working with Rod Hairston, M.A.
Who is Rod Hairston?
Rod has spent a lifetime studying marriage and romantic relationships while working with high-performing, college, and professional athletes. He has discovered the keys to helping highly-successful people have marriage and relationship success–mindset shifts, unpacking their upbringing, and growing emotional awareness.
Being raised by a single mom, he beat the odds to become a 2X Super Bowl champion and successful entrepreneur. He’s accomplished great marriage and career success as a husband of 35 years, father of 4 amazing adult children, author of 2.5 books, and marriage coach and advisor to highly respected people in the world of professional sports and business.
While all of the above sounds wonderful, the rest of the story is that I struggle just like you. Insecurity grips me hard some days. I often wonder if I’m making the impact that I dream of making. And there’s so much that I haven’t figured out yet about life and my driven personality. But what I’m sure of is this: marriage absolutely matters. Sheri and I were products of broken homes. Every day of our 35-year marriage, we’ve fought hard to create something life-giving for us and for our four adult children. And we’re so glad we did.
To serve my clients really well, I invest in coaching, lean on proven science about love and relationships, and the apply the timeless principles of Scripture as a dedicated "hope dealer".
What’s Inside The Love Mastery Intensive?
The Love Mastery Intensive goes in depth, coaching couples to recover intimacy, master communication, grow awareness of emotional needs, protect against infidelity, and re-build trust. Through powerful coaching insights, applied research, and biblical wisdom, you will learn to use the keys for transforming your love life.
Get New Coping Strategies
We’re all attracted to our spouses for specific reasons and because of very important needs in our lives. Once you're honest about your dreams, you can be honest about your disappointments.
Grow Your Emotional Awareness
Once you begin to understand the power of emotional awareness and emotional connection, you will see changes in your ability to be affectionate and begin looking forward to time together. They didn't teach you this in school.
Resolve Conflicts Quickly
We all have a predictable way of dealing with conflicts in our marriages. But most couples don’t know how to actually, calmly resolve conflicts in a way that feels satisfying and safe for both people. That's about to change.
Get The "Why" Behind Infidelity
Even good relationships are vulnerable to infidelity. As the saying goes, "We can't fix what we don't face." Even if haven't experienced betrayal, it's still important to know how to protect your marriage.
Communicate for Connection
Rather than the usual “Say it this way” and “Say it back to each other” techniques. You’ll be introduced to multi-dimensional listening–a much more effective approach to couples communication that fosters connection no matter what you’re communicating about.
Rebuild Broken Trust
The longer our marriages are out of sync, recycling conflicts and poor communication, the more our trust in one another suffers. You’ll learn the dynamics of trust – how it’s broken and how it’s rebuilt. You’ll discover the framework for daily, deepening your trust so you both feel safe.
Heal Old Wounds Together
We’ve all been wounded by something or someone. Sometimes the wounds happened before you were a couple. And sometimes you were the source of wounds to one another. You’ll start going beyond forgiveness to the process of real healing.
Build A Better Sex Life
Most of us were taught poorly about sex. Most of us have built relationships with sex that doesn't serve our relationships. But once you know the powerful ways that sex can deepen your bond, you'll never settle for a lesser approach again. God gave sex as a gift to married couples to be enjoyed.
2 WAYS TO EXPERIENCE LOVE MASTERY
LOVE MASTERY Baltimore
Couples Travel to Maryland
- Full access to the Love Mastery Intensive
- Live coaching with Rod Hairston, M.A.
- A bespoke approach designed to serve couples powerfully
- 5-Star Hotel Accommodations Included
- Exclusive, private coaching
$24K
LOVE MASTERY Your City
Rod Travels to Client City of Choice
(Limited to the Continental U.S.)
- Full access to the Love Mastery Intensive
- Live coaching with Rod Hairston, M.A.
- A bespoke approach designed to serve couples powerfully
- Inclusive of travel, lodging, and meals for exclusive, private coaching
$30K
The Love Mastery Guarantee
If you do the work and stay the course, you will grow and you will win! Because every couple's situation is different, the only thing I can guarantee is that you will have an amazing experience if you show up with a great attitude. The focused work in this coaching program has led to amazaing results for other couples just like you!
Here’s What You Get In Love Mastery
Marriage and relationship insights that work. Biblical wisdom and up-to-date science of love to transform your marriage or relationship from deep frustration to unbreakable connection:
- Break Generational Cycles
- Begin To Connect Emotionally
- Learn Strategies To Meet Each Other's Important Needs
- Get Rid of Negative Assumptions & Hurtful Habits
- Start Resolving Conflicts Without Chaos
- Communicate More Effectively
- Rebuild Trust
- Heal Old Relationship Wounds
- Heal Childhood Traumas
- Increase Sexual Intimacy & Relationship Security
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